Hello Southernistas! I hope y’all had an absolutely fabulous weekend and that you are relaxed and recharged. If you attended church on Sunday I pray you are fully restored and filled and ready for Monday.
This weekend I attended a plus size fashion show with my beautiful friend and style sister Laura of the blog wonderfullymadestyle, y’all go check out her blog. The fashion show was produced by the talented Mrs. Jenica who is the founder and CEO of Plushy Jenica and she truly put on an amazing fashion show! The models were different shapes, sizes, and heights but they were all beautiful and fierce as were the fashion they rocked. As we enjoyed the fashion show the audience was invited to rock the runway between collections and I’m sure I don’t need to tell you Laura and I were more than happy to struct our stuff on the runway!
I want to encourage you today whatever size you are to rock your runway! You may never walk in New York Fashion Week but everyday that you get up, get dressed and step outside your house you can rock your runway ladies and gents! Whether you are going to work, running errands, or keeping up with the little ones you can step out onto your own personal runway and work your style with confidence. You never know who you will inspire!
Until next time Southernistas Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident!
Here are some pictures from the Plushy Jenica Fashion Show. If you would like information about any of the outfits from the fashion show check out Plushy Jenica’s Facebook page.
My Dress is from the Betsy Johnson x Dia & Co Collection (sold out)| Shoes from Just Fab
Happy Monday Southernistas! I hope I y’all had a great weekend and that you are feeling rested, renewed, and restored and ready to conquer your week.
It is not secret that my absolutely favorite color is red! I look amazing in the color red and I feel bold, confident and sexy in red too. I mean what girl doesn’t feel a total boss babe or a sexy siren when they put on a red dress or lipstick or even a killer pair of red stilettos. But I must confess there is another color I am starting to fall in love with and that is the color green. Now don’t get me wrong it will never replace my first love red but over the last year I find myself gravitating to the color green whenever I go shopping. I discovered this beautiful green maxi dress at Ashley Stewart and it is so comfortable and stylish but alas it is sold out but I will provide links to alternates. Green always reminds of Spring and Summer and it is such a restful and peaceful color and it is a soft color. Green can also be a bold color like every color there is a shade of green for everyone.
With fall just around the corner I’ve been checking out the darker tones of the color Green and can’t wait to incorporate them in my fall closet. If you are looking in your closet and wondering what’s missing I would suggest you incorporate a little green in your closet and just enjoy all the compliments.
Until next time Southernistas remember Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident!
Hello to all my Southernistas! I hope y’all had a great weekend and that your Monday has been a good one.
Today is my birthday! That’s right today I turn 48 and I count myself blessed to see another year. In the past I’ve usually been so depressed when my birthday comes because I am so focused on the negative and what I don’t have instead of counting my blessings. Year 48 I am looking for greater blessings and even more love. I know I’m blessed to have a loving family, a beautiful daughter, awesome friends, the best church family (love you AHOD) and my fashion is ever evolving. I am embracing my natural salt and pepper hair and I have my hair stylist Angelia to thank for knowing what’s best for me even when I’m being stubborn. I changed the name of my blog and I have great things in store for the blog this year! I am also in great company in celebrating my birthday because I share it with the ah..mazing Stacey Jemison as well as Judy Garland.
To celebrate my birthday I turned to my favorite retailer Eloquii and got this beautiful strapless fringe dress I have been lusting over forever and paired it with my go to black lace bell sleeve top from Ashley Stewart for modesty. Pulled the whole look together with these cute silver shiny heels from JustFab.
So as I enter into year 48 I enter with expectation and anticipation! Who knows this could be the year I meet my husband.
Until next time Southernistas Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident
Also I’ve included pictures of the birthday surprise from my daughter
Hello to all my Southernistas! I hope your week has been awesome and that you are ready for the three day weekend and remember to take time to remember those who paid the ultimate price in service to our country.
I can’t believe it has been a year since I started this blog! My actual blog birthday was May 6th but things got a little crazy at work. First I never thought I would ever start a blog and now I’ve blogging for a year so crazy. When I started this blog it was and still is my intention to share my fashion journey and a peek inside my life (not a lot happening) with my fellow fashion addicts. I knew it wouldn’t be easy and I really thought a lot about weather to start a blog because there are so many awesome blogs out here now but with the encouragement of my Mom, my best friend Lisa, and the awesome Shelia Amir’s Blogging with Precision class I took the plunge and here I am 1 year later. So today I just want to share what I’ve learned in my first year.
First Lesson: Blogging is hard! It is one thing to say I’m going to start a blog but it’s a whole another world when you start! Blogging is a commitment and you have to be willing to commit time weather you are doing it as a hobby (me), part time, or pursuing it as a full time career you have to be committed.
Second Lesson: Blogger/Social Media Workshops are worth the money! When I decided to take that step and start a blog I had no idea where to begin (refer to lesson 1) and I was overwhelmed when I did a Google search. The great thing is I had enrolled in a social media workshop and it helped me so much and when I received an email that Shelia was offering a workshop all about blogging I gladly paid the money. It was money well spent and at the end of the blogging workshop I had the tools I needed to start my blog. Now there are free online blogging classes offered online too if the funds are just not there but if you can make the investment.
Third Lesson: Blogging requires organization! Yes you must be organized when it comes to blogging especially if you have decided to make it a career. There are so many tools available that will help you get organized and stay organized. There are blogging workshops, manuals, and every state has a blogger network you can join for a fee and YouTube is a great resource too. Seasoned bloggers who have a YouTube channel have shared great advice.
Fourth Lesson: Be You! I follow a lot of bloggers but I know that as much as I admire these bloggers I am not them and I have to be Regina and have my own voice. Make sure your blog reflects you. It is totally okay to admire and even to aspire to be like that blogger you love but don’t lose who you are because you are pretty cool yourself and the more authentic you are the more authentic your blog.
Fifth Lesson: Blogging doesn’t have to be expensive! I started my blog on Medium.com before I moved to WordPress but there are other sites you can go to and they are free. Also don’t stress over hiring a photographer. My mom takes all of my photos on my cell phone and I get asked all the time who my photographer is and when I say my mom the look on people’s face is priceless. Also I’m learning how to take my own pictures and check out my girl Laura of wonderfullymadestyle she takes her own photos! Don’t stress thinking you needs buckets of money all you need are people who love you and support you to help you make your dream come true.
Last but not least I’ve learned to have fun! Blogging can be stressful but it can also be loads of fun too especially the photo shoots.
Well those are just a few of the lessons I’ve learned this first year of blogging and I’m constantly learning and discovering something new and neat everyday.
Thank you for following me and your comments and encouragement! This blog would not exist without my Southernistas! As always remember Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident!
Dress from Fullbeauty.com (no longer available)| Shoes from Venus | Bag from Justfab.com
Happy Friday Southernistas! I hope y’all had a great work week and that you are ready for the weekend! For some of us it was a four day work week due to the celebration of the life of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
I don’t know about y’all but winter has really arrived here in North Carolina and we’ve had more rainy and cloudy days then sunny days. The temperature has dropped with the exception of two days of 60+ degree weather this week. With the days being so gray I’ve taken the opportunity to wear more color and the one color I decided to wear was white. I usually don’t wear white because as a southern girl it was ingrained in me that you don’t wear white after Labor Day. This is so ingrained in me that I really don’t even think about wearing white in the winter unless it is for a church service.
On my fashion journey I am constantly pushing myself to step outside my comfort zone and when I was deciding what to wear my eyes fell on this beautiful Karl Lagerfeld (yes that Karl) skirt I got from a previous Stitch Fix box I almost put it back thinking this is for Spring but then I said to myself “Regina break that no white after Labor day rule!” and so I pulled it out the closet again and paired it with my favorite white sweater from Full Beauty.
I am so glad I did because when I saw the total look it was an instant mood lifter for me and even though it is winter I felt like a beautiful Spring day! So remember to toss outdated fashion rules out the window and wear your white!
Until next time Southernistas remember to Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident!
Skirt Stitch Fix | Sweater Full Beauty | Shoes DSW | Denim Trench Coat Eloquii | Bag Payless Shoe Source
Hello Southernistas! I hope everyone has had a good week and that you are keeping warm. Here in North Carolina the week started out in the 60s but it is not freezing!
Southernistas there is nothing like a suit! I had forgotten how wonderful and versatile a suit can be and how timeless they are too. I think my main reason for avoiding suits for so long is because when I think of suits I think about the suits from the 80s shoulder pads and all (shudder) but that is not the case anymore. This week I rediscovered the power of a great suit. The great thing about a suit is that it instantly makes you feel stylish and pulled together. It gives you a polished and effortless look plus total girl boss vibes! You don’t have to go out a buy a suit if you have a great blazer and cute skirt voila you have a suit! Which is what I did with this outfit I paired this blazer from Lane Bryant with this cute skirt also from Lane Bryant and since we’ve had nothing but gray skies recently I wore this ultra feminine lavender floral top and I felt ready to go forth and conquer.
Suits never really go out of style but they are having their fashion moment. With a suit you can mix and match with pieces in your closet to create several different looks. So in the words of Barney from How I Met Your Mother….SUIT UP!
Unit next time Southernistas! Have a great weekend and remember to Be Bold, Be Beautiful, Be Confident!
Bryant Blazer from Lane Bryant, Skirt from Lane Bryant (old), Shoes from Payless (old), Pocketbook from Nine West (Old)
Hello Southernistas so Thanksgiving is just around the corner! My prayer is that everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving and for you who are traveling I pray God’s traveling mercies upon you and “may the odds be in your favor.” For you who are cooking I wish you godspeed!
This year I want to give thanks for this blog, new and old friends and new opportunities! First this blog never would have happened without encouragement from my best friend of over 30 years, Lisa, who is always available when I need her with no questions asked. Lisa was the first one who urged me to start a blog and she was the first one I turned to when I was trying to come up with names for my blog. She also came with me on my first photo shoot and was my wardrobe assistant at no charge. Thanks also to my Mother, Teralyn Dean, and Brian Antzack who were my cheerleaders in this new and scary path. Thank you to Kayla Moore who took my photos for my very first blog post at no charge and Maya Dean who served as Kayla’s assistant. Kayla and Maya thank you ladies for making time in your very busy schedules to help me bring my vision to life.
I am also thankful for Shelia Amir of The Bulls of Durham for two things the first making Durham her home and second her blogging workshop Blogging with Precision. I am a faithful follower of Shelia’s Instagram thebullsofdurham so when she announced her first workshop I signed up for it and learned so much and I did increase my social media presence on Instagram.When she rolled out her Blogging with Precision workshop I immediately signed up for this workshop and it was money well spent. In the workshop I learned so much and Shelia’s advice to me personally helped me so much. Thank you Shelia!
I am so thankful to God for Dia & Co for three things: 1. Allowing me to be an ambassador now a domino for them, 2. Creating a community and sisterhood for their customers. The third and most important is because of Dia I met Laura Roy Stanberry (check out her blog)who is not just a friend but a sister in Christ. There are no words that I can type that can really express how thankful I am that I know Laura!
Dia & Co also brought into my life these wonderful women who my Mother and I got to meet last month in Nashville. When Laura Mokelke organized a ladies weekend getaway for all who wanted to come I knew I was going. I blogged about the weekend get away here and here but I wanted to thank Laura and everyone who helped her put this girls trip together. I know I walked away with deep and meaningful friendships and the sisterhood was definitely established and I can’t wait for the next get together!
As as I write this I realize these are just a few of the events and people in my life I am thankful for this year. I am blessed beyond measure with a loving family, an amazing daughter, awesome Pastor & Assistant Pastor, loving church family who supports me (AHOD I love y’all), good health, employment, friends new and old. This year as you gather with family and friends don’t forget to give thanks for all that God has blessed you with.
Until next time remember to Be Bold,Be Beautiful, Be Confidant!
If you haven’t discovered by now that I love heels and I love high heels but I’ve also come to realize how stylish flats can be also. This doesn’t mean I’ve given up my heels or plan to give them anytime soon but I’ve come to realize that flats are great too and they are practical for running errands and having on hand to change into when you’re at an event and you start to feel the effects of wearing those heels for a few hours. I’ve started to incorporate more flats into my shoe wardrobe. I know that many of my Southernistas out there can’t wear heels or want wear heels and that’s okay. For some heels are uncomfortable and not worth the trouble and for others heels are not an option because of medical conditions or other issues but that doesn’t mean you can’t wear stylish flats. A stylish pair of flats can make the outfit just as fabulous as those stilettos! Below I’ve selected a few of my favorite flats that will complete any look and give that Instagram pic a wow factor!
Until next time Be Bold, Be Fearless, Be Confident!
Hey Y’all! Hope your weekend was been a great weekend.
If there is one thing I love is it’s how I feel when I am wearing a dress. I feel so pretty and feminine. My sister said this to me a few months ago when I was assisting her and after my failed efforts she said to me “you just be pretty” and it has stuck with me months later. There is nothing like putting on that outfit that just makes you feel so pretty and especially this time of the year!
When I got this beautiful London Times dress in my latest Dia box I knew this dress would make me feel so pretty and feminine. You can’t go wrong with a floral dress when you want to feel all girly. Remember being pretty is how an outfit makes you feel and not what a scale says.
So today I encourage you on this week to just be pretty!